Controversy

I don't know about most people but as for me, I find it hard to be good but totally platonic friends with someone of the opposite sex. It's not because of me, I'm completely fine with it but its what people talk about. I've found myself being questioned about the status of my "friendship" with guys on more than one occasion. If we were more than friends. =.=" I've been asked by my friends and even my parents!

Is it so hard to be just really good friends with a guy? I don't think so. Personally, I enjoy having good guy friends. To know that they'll be there for me if I find myself stuck in a sticky situation that I need to get out of, they can be my muscles and if the situation calls for it; bodyguards. Guys are good at what girls generally aren't...like brawn. Who do I call when I need help moving? My guy friends of course! Plus, they know stuff regarding cars, computers, sports...etc. which makes them good to have around.

I'm not trying to make them look like disposable objects here but they genuinely are good to have around. Why this post? I was recently questioned again about my "just friends" status with a guy friend of mine. We just enjoy each other's company I guess. Plus, I'm still trying to get over someone so there is no doubt about it. People can be such nosy parkers at times.